Which comes around to my initial post question. What NIC's have users had success with? No one is posting because no one really uses inline is my only conclusion because it is too 'buggy'.
I will post here that netmap has issues with Intel i340, i350, i211, i217 ,i219, Pro1000 NIC's which just about covers all Intel NIC's. Never tested realtek.
Now, a point I must make here is that these NIC's were tested on a high traffic interface. When I use on a low traffic interface, I do not see any netmap issues.